While at work today, I had a short conversation with one of my
coworkers on books. I told her about how I spent a good portion of my
day reading
A Song of Storms (Book 3) and extolled its
wonderful depictions of characters, especially those who were first
introduced to me as villains. She too is a fan of reading and indulges
herself in
50 Shades of Grey when time allows her. I can’t lie,
it felt like being stabbed through the heart when she told me how she
enjoys the book and that her daughter told her how the series only gets
better. To see this novel at the top of the bestsellers list in the
Amazon Kindle Marketplace, hearing rumors of a movie deal, and just
having to witness it come up as often as it does in regular daily life
is nauseating.
I visited Barnes & Noble and read a few pages of the book about
two months ago to confirm my (and the Internet’s) suspicions over
whether this novel was pure drivel. To the contrary, it was worse. The
book started off as
Twilight fan-fiction and evolved into a
macabre tale of a pointless sexual contract that reads like any other
Harlequin Romance novel. The extraneous fluff of adjectives don’t help
either. One of the most fascinating aspects of the pages I read included
a list of assorted sexual positions and some talk of safe words; all of
this information is delivered in a boring style, and is only
interesting because the words look so naughty on the page.
It makes me sad to hear anyone wasting their time reading this poor
excuse for literature when there are so many superior stories out there.
I am clearly biased toward
A Song of Ice and Fire, but not
without justifiable reasons. One of the hallmarks of reading is that
stories can teach us how to behave and what to do when a difficult
situation overwhelms us. Many people turn to different sources of
inspiration: celebrities, athletes, God; but there are also characters
that stay with you, and give you the push to always better yourself.
What would Rocky Balboa do?
Replace Rocky with any other name and you have an icon to keep you grounded. In the
A Song of Ice and Fire
series, the central characters go through horrors that no one in our
time could ever dream of. Catelyn Stark is easily one of the most
forlorn wives, mothers, and women in the series, having to endure great
strife and grief at every turn, and yet she continues to fight for the
love of her family. The best part about her and many of the other
characters is that she inspires debate; her actions and reactions change
the course of an entire kingdom, and with it, the opinions of readers.
I think back to my coworker and know that she could use a character
like Catelyn Stark as a role model in her own life: divorced, in her
mid-forties, raising two children; it’s got difficult, and the strain
clearly shows in her. She shouldn’t be serving tables, working with
people half her age, but she does what’s necessary to survive, the same
way that Catelyn Stark does. She could gather so much strength from a
woman like her, not from some silly half-wit like Ana in
50 Shades of Grey,
who enters a sexual relationship with a billionaire. A billionaire?
This entire decade is going to be about the one versus the ninety-nine
percent.
Readers must be more scrutinizing with their book selections. I
understand it’s easy to jump on the bandwagon of popularity, and I only
picked up on the aforementioned series because of HBO’s “Game of
Thrones,” but I studied what it was that this series was introducing me
to–and I have no regrets. The character’s I’ve met are lively and real,
as real as any others I’ve known, and if I’m ever in a dark place, not
sure where life is taking, I can always think back on the actions of the
many characters in this series and borrow strength from. “Winter is
coming,” are the words of House Stark, a bleak phrase that identifies
that tough times are ahead, but after every winter there is a spring–an
endless cycle always continues.